If I were in Shalini's place, I would also accept the situation with understanding and grace, just as Shalini did.

Recognizing that my uncle's family was going through a difficult time and that my parents were helping them would make me feel proud of my family's values.

I would understand that the simpler cotton dress still serves the purpose and that the joy of the festival comes from being together as a family.

Supporting family members in need and learning to share and sacrifice are important values that help build strong relationships. The chapter explains that the family is a 'school' where children learn important values such as ahimsa, dāna (giving), sevā (service) and tyāga (sacrifice).

Being happy that everyone could get new clothes for the festival would be more important than having an expensive dress for myself.